I don't know where to write this but FWIW just wanted to say that this site has totally saved my you-know-what in a complex and perplexing past few months. It also immensely clarified so much gut-instinct and other feelings I had. Being Western-educated but having to spend lots of time in an Asian country... well, just thanks. I cannot express my appreciation enough.
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